Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Great Prose

May we live forever, in the hearts of women,

And may our names live forever, on the lips of men.

- Quek Jing Xun

I admire his sense of art, and his talents in western literature.
My NS friend in the same office. Westernized, but not of empty shell.

He made another good one while I am talking about him having good material wealth.

I am materially good,
You are of good material.
- Quek Jing Xun

Thanks for that praise!
I appreciated it a lot.=D

Threading the heart

Many students find it hard to get a white long pants for their retreat. So I decided to make some white sarongs for the young practitioners, since sarongs is easier to sew. This meritorious thought, sparked it's wholesome results very quickly.

I only had 3 days, and I've got to come out with as many as I can. So I quickly buy white cloth, and borrowed a sewing machine from Ming gen at his house.

I actually intended to sew sarong, but I find it weird to let the uncle know, so I say, it's for making pants. But I missed out that, the measurements for pants and sarongs are different. SO too bad, I have to make pants out of it cloths.

But I'm quite bad at making pants. Don't really know how. But I try... haha Just to piece the cloth up into something wearable.

Here come Ming Gen's mum. She saw that way I cut the cloth for a pants is wrong. so She start teaching me how to do it in the proper way. That amazed Ming gen as he never knew his mum knows needlework.

This is where I learn. From getting the measurements, cutting the cloth is the right way, lastly the way to piece them up together. Starting from the edges ( which is the crouch part), next is the top (waist part), and then the legs part.

Not knowing the nature of the sewing machine and the cloth, many sewing techniques I applied was wrong. It turned out that all the measurements are imbalanced and lost the mark, resulting is extras, slanting of the clothes... etc...

His mum said something which I kept in mind, as I see Dhamma in it. "Sewing is something that requireds delicate skills and precision. A little mistakes makes a big difference."

Indeed I lack skill in this, and I need more practice. That makes me appreciate all the clothings I see, because I heard that sewing is something can't rely totally on robots. Clothes workshop still requires semstress. What we wear today, what we use, all is accumulated skills and experience.

I also appreciate sewing more, that its another meaningful skill I should pick up.

Besides that, she also gave me alot of encouragement,although at many points I can see her controlling her words, making it more refine... LOL... I think she know I'm disappointed.

When I'm sewing and applying what I was taught, I also understand some teachings. Sewing is also like teaching Dhamma, or even straightening ourselves.

We must know the steps, and the right techniques to apply, at the right place, dealing with the problems arisen. Besides experience, we must have paitence. Think carefully, else undoing is an extra work.

Indeed, anything can be used to be a reminder of truths, the law for things to work well are all the same. You need, interest, effort, mindfulness and the ability to review and improve.

It's about practice and refining it. Same to the mind, to meditation and our characters. The more we practice, the more we are skilled. Mindfulness and sharpness of the mind comes together, partly because we are skilled in that particular thing.

For the sake of Hanfu as well, I must master the sewing techniques well, so that I can sew the best Hanfu and let it reappear in the world in honor.

The Buddha praised capability and vast in knowledge. He encouraged people to learn a handy skill. Capable people in both mundane skills and dhamma are praised and of good benefit to others and oneself.

Now I've something more to pick up... which adds on to meanings in my life.

Sewing is also a noble art, I feel.... a treasure, because it is a high skill. The understanding to textile and the dynamics of clothings by the masters are deep and vast. If it's a useful knowledge, it is a treasure isnt it?

I'll work on the pants for practioners once I've grasp the basic techniques well.
I want to master it well.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Dana filled with Jewels

Recalling back at the Beginning of the month...

Yao Feng actually wanted to dana some stones to the consecration of the Om Koi Chedi; Ajhan Keng's forest Monastery in the mountain tribes of northern thailand.

But too bad it was sealed already. Later I heared, the Buddha statue is still unsealed, I quickly urged Yao feng to do his dana before too late.

At first, I was dubious about the "stones". What stones? Are they very precious?
Later he showed it to me, I was so shocked... It was Gem stones! SO Many of them...
Besides Gemstones, there are rings and Republic silver coins. All these are genuine stuffs. Not some fake products. It was part of his private collections. Taking part of his collections to Dana, I also Anumodana and rejoiced this giving. It's really a good Dana.

The thought and the heart that is willing to take out things considered precious in the world, to honor the Buddha, is really great. Each time I see the Gems, and thinking that it is going to be offered to the Buddha, I'm filled with excitement and happiness! Even Now...

We were discussing how can we bring the gems over the customs. Because the gems were well protected in boxes as if it is meant for selling.

So I suggested, why not get a Small Chedi, and put all the gems in. I looks nice, and doesn't look as if for trading. I'm thinking of giving out some of the Buddha relics I had, to the Buddha-Rupam at Om koi also.

(Taken By Ming Gen's DSLR)

In the same time, I can honor to the Buddha Rupa with gems and relics, and honor the Relics with a Chedi filled with gems.

So we went together to get a suitable chedi. After many rounds of price comparing, searching for a really suitable one, we finally decided. I didn't expect that the gems need such a large Chedi to hold. And when we pour the gems over, it filled the Chedi to the brim, almost cannot close. We got to adjust the position of the gems, then it can shut tight...

(Taken By Ming Gen's DSLR)

To let Ajhan know what the Chedi contains, and also to let those who know about this Dana rejoice. I requested Yao Feng to put down a list of the Gems contained in side.

A closer look at the Gems... The Relic is too small, but it's buried by the Gems.


This is a great giving to be remembered, which always brings me joy each time I think about it.
May All Rejoice! Sadhu~! Sadhu~! Sadhu~!

By the Merit accrued:

May I be Victorious in all ways!
May I be free from pain and distress.
May I attain Nibbana in this very existence.

I dedicate this Merit to all:
May you be Awakened to the true Dhamma!
May you be free from pain and distress.
May all your wholesome wishes by fulfilled.
May you attained Nibbana.

What to envision...

To Accomplish Great things,
We must not only Act, But also Dream,
Not only Plan, But also Believe.
- Anatole france



They don't Believe in Fate or Destiny,
They believe in Action & Fruits of their actions.
- Bhante Ratanasara



Dream to be a Sotapan,
Believe you can be an Arahant.
- Silatharo



We don't Believe in Fate or Destiny,
But our Deeds and its Results.
- Silatharo



We don't Believe in Fate,
But the Results of our Deeds.

- Silatharo


Hehehehe...

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Samvega (Urgency)

I am subject to aging, illness and death.

I have not gone beyond aging, illness and death. How can I be negligent?
Cultivate Merit and assure a good future!

I have not gone beyond aging, illness and death. How can I be negligent?
Develop Samadhi and attain equanimity!

I have not gone beyond aging, illness and death. How can I be negligent?
Attain Nibbana and go beyond aging, illness and death!

Bounded by Darkness(delusion)
Shouldn't I seek Light?
I have a choice to do away with pain...
I should not be heedless.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Right pace is neccessary for progress

Something just strike me... While I was talking to a junior online.

At that instance, I looked back at the past, all that has happened and done...

Things require time to grow, forcing it is no difference from the Chinese proverb 拔苗助长。
Every person has their own pace. Some are faster, some are slower, some just never grow.

Right condition with the right amount of effort is necessary for success to happen, nothing comes simply by will and force alone.

Patience is needed.

To make teach people to do the right things, think the right way, can't be done simply telling them what is right and wrong and what should be done.

I need to educate them patiently, nurturing their understanding and capabilities, until they see it for themselves.

It's not a forced law, but a corrected view which is needed.

Wrong views leads to wrong actions. They can't be removed by forced rules, but correcting of views.

Wrong learning - > Wrong practice -> Wrong realization -> Wrong sharing -> Wrong learning
Right learning -> Right practice ->Right realization -> Right sharing -> Right learning

It seems that the condition is still not there. At least, some distance from the goal.
But if it is the merit of the members to meet with such things, it really can't be helped.

The Dhamma corrects wrong view to right view, this is the objectives of Buddha's teaching.
The only way I can see is guidance and correcting of views. The source for right view must be there, working within their capacity, keeping them not too far astray.

I should feed the right amount of nutrients and not eagerly forcing them to grow.

The Dhamma is there to guide them, my personal development plays a big role as well.
Unfortunately, they are not those who can speak equivalents yet.
Even the leaders themselves need to be taught like a student.

But I wish, May we be on same ground, or even higher.

May they not be intoxicated in youth and health which is bound to pass away.
May the not be blinded by ignorance.
Understand that they must one day, leave everything behind.
May they all, not miss the chance to know the ending of sorrow to completeness.